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Sunday, October 30, 2011

Anger

The other day I had coffee with my friend Gene. I met Gene 6 years ago at a Wild at Heart small group he was conducting in his home. He's a great guy, awesome husband, father, grandfather, business owner just one of those guys you love to be around. He was our team leader on my last trip to India, so we've had a chance to spend a lot of time together.

During our conversation over coffee he looked me square in the eyes and asked me this question, "Are you angry?"

I replied, "I was last week but not today."

Without blinking an eye he said, "Yes you are. There is something going on right under the surface with you and you better figure it out. Being angry is like having vaseline on your glasses, you can't see anything and you can't just wipe it off you have to really work at cleaning it off." Then he went on to say, " If I were you I'd really study this anger thing, search scripture, books, websites, whatever it takes because if you don't you'll never be the man God wants you to be, your anger will block your vision.

I have been extremely busy these days with school and working several part time jobs to make ends meet, it seems that I don't have time to do everything I want to do. So as a result I've become resentful, negative, bitter, disgruntled, joyless. I've let the enemy use my busyness against me as an excuse to blame others for my own discontent.

Am I angry? I guess I am, I just couldn't see it.

Later that day he texted me this verse:
 Ephesians 4:30-32 (NIV)
 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

What would happen today if we called each other out on the things that are blocking our communion with God? What would happen if we really worked at cleaning the "vaseline" off our glasses and saw where God was leading us? What would happen today if we admitted our faults to God and another human being so they would no longer be on our shoulders?

What would happen today...?





Sunday, June 12, 2011

Follow

What would happen today if we made time to be alone with God? What would happen today if we stood still long enough to hear His voice? What would happen today if we put all of our troubles at His feet? What would happen today if we gave Him our undivided attention on a regular basis?

What would happen today...?
Mark 1:35 (NIV)
Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.
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Saturday, May 14, 2011

Caged


I recently made a trip to the Potawatomi Park Zoo in South Bend IN. It was one of those "alone time" with God days and I thought it would be a little different to go somewhere other than out in the woods or to the beach by the lake. I walked around and saw all of the animals on display, the smaller ones like the prairie dogs, river otters, and some of the monkeys seemed to be content in their little environments, but the big cats were very bored. The little animals were running around playing and having fun while these guys just sat there a stared off into space. I made little noises to get their attention but they ignored my like I wasn't even there. I just happened to snap this photo just before he laid his head down as if he was bored to death. Lions are fairly lazy animals in the wild anyway, they only get up and around to hunt or eat, but in captivity they just seemed hollow.

I think that's how we feel sometimes, captive, caged, stuck with no way out. We go through life day after day just putting in our time until something exciting comes along but most of the time we are just plain bored. Or we get caught up in sin looking for excitement and we get caged by that sin and spend a lot of time covering up our mistakes. But Jesus changes all that, He sets us free. When we surrender to Him and turn our will and our lives over to Him we are redeemed, forgiven and set free.
What would happen today if we turned ourselves over to the care of God each and every day? What would happen if we were set free from our sin by the One who Loves us? What would happen today if we stopped staring off into space bored to death and started living with joy in our hearts? What would happen today if we stopped looking to sin for excitement and ask God into our hearts to do His work and love others as He loves us?

What would happen today...?

Romans 6:21-23 (NIV)
What benefit did you reap at that time from the things you are now ashamed of? Those things result in death! 22 But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Journey

 May 20, 2008
 May 6, 2011
Our whole lives are a journey, and on that journey there are many paths. When we come to a fork in the road we are faced with a decision, do we go this way or that? If we go the wrong way the consequences can be devastating. But if we follow God's path the rewards are incredible. When we stand at those forks we have to ask ourselves: "What is the fruit of my decision?" "If I do this is it going to honor God?" "Will I be a better person and will it have a positive effect on the people around me?" If we can answer yes to these questions then that's the way to go, if not then we need to step back and reevaluate our motives.

Three years ago I made a decision to go to college at the age of 47. God put it on my heart to go to school and get a degree in Human Services so I can go out into the world and help people become the person he made them to be. My past life is littered with the fruits of bad decisions: drug and alcohol abuse, failed marriages, financial difficulties, shame, guilt, fear, resentment, and self-centeredness. But now that I'm following God's path the fruits are much different: joy, peace, confidence, open-heartedness, love, and compassion. Even though the past three years have been tough, walking across the stage to receive my diploma was worth every minute.

What would happen today if when we came to a fork in the road and stopped to ask ourselves these questions? What would happen today if we followed His path for us? What would happen today if we prayed for His direction? What would happen today if our influence on others helped them follow his path?

What would happen today...?

Psalm 119:105 (KJV)
Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.
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Saturday, April 9, 2011

Doubt


We spend a lot of time making decisions about life. Where do we use our time and effort, what's the best way to invest our money, who do we build relationships with. Life is full of big decisions that can have great benefits or costly consequences. Life is an ongoing process that at times can be overwhelming or other times it's a breeze. Even though we have all of this going on there is One Who never changes. I think one of the hardest things to do is to not doubt His power, grace, and love. We are human, so we get caught up in everyday life and forget that He is our reason for living. We tend to try to do things on our own. It's not that we don't believe, it's that we get distracted. The enemy is always trying to keep us from hearing from God, he puts doubt in our head and we fall for it all the time. But when we push those doubts aside and rely on God we can do anything.

What would happen today if we believed in our Faith? What would happen today if we walked in the path that God has laid out for us? What would happen today if we trusted God enough to turn over the hard things in life to Him? What would happen today if we put our mountains at His feet?

What would happen today...?

Mark 11:23 (NIV ©2011)
“Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them.
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Thursday, March 24, 2011

Whatever


I was walking through church on Monday morning and found this little card on the floor. The children's ministry hands these cards out to the kids every week, each week has a different verse. When I picked it up and looked at it I really didn't think much about it, but the more I thought about it I had to ask myself this question: Do I do what it says? Unfortunately the answer is no. I get sidetracked, distracted, and sometimes I just don't care. But that's not the attitude we are suppose to have.

What would happen today if everything we did we did as if we were doing it for the Lord Himself? What would happen today if we put our whole hearts into our efforts? What would happen today if we helped each other to remember that God wants us to do everything was if are doing it for Him? What would happen today if every man in America lived this way?

What would happen today...?

Colossians 3:22-25 (New International Version, ©2011)

Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. 23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, 24 since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. 25 Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for their wrongs, and there is no favoritism.

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Saturday, March 12, 2011

Alone

There is one thing that God wants from us more than anything else; a relationship with Him. The only way to build a relationship with anyone is to spend time with them.



Jesus modeled this for us several times in the Scriptures. He spent time alone with the Father.

What would happen today if we followed Jesus' lead and made time for the Father? What would happen today if we set aside time to intentionally be alone to pray? What would happen today if we went off to a solitary place even in the rain and cold to let God recharge our hearts? What would happen today if our relationship with Him was so strong that nothing could come between us?

What would happen today...?

Mark 1:35 (NIV copyrite 2011)

Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where he prayed.

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Sunday, February 27, 2011

Frustration

Scholars estimate it took Noah around 100 years to build the ark. Once the ark was finished he had to collect all the animals 2 by 2. Let's listen to a conversation between him and God.



Even Noah got frustrated with the job the Lord had commanded him to do. That can happen to us too. Following God's call is not easy, if it was, everyone would do it. But if we do just as He commands the rewards far exceed the inconvenience.

What would happen today if we follow God's commands without arguing with Him? What would happen today if we let His will become our own? What would happen today if we remembered the covenant that He made with Noah and lived our lives on purpose?

What would happen today...?

Genesis 9:12-16 (NIV ©2010)

And God said, “This is the sign of the covenant I am making between me and you and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations to come: 13 I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth. 14 Whenever I bring clouds over the earth and the rainbow appears in the clouds, 15 I will remember my covenant between me and you and all living creatures of every kind. Never again will the waters become a flood to destroy all life. 16 Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living creatures of every kind on the earth.”
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Sunday, February 20, 2011

Hearing

All through history there have billions of men that have gone through life without hearing the voice of God. But the Bible is full of stories of men who had encounters with Him, some struggled with Him, some were healed by Him, and some were told to do great things for Him. There is one guy who heard His voice and talked to Him. The Creator told Noah to do something that was ridiculous, impossible, even crazy, but because Noah was a righteous man he followed God's direction in spite of what everyone else believed.



What would happen today if we listened for God's leading? What would happen if we trusted Him enough to follow through with His plans even though they may seem crazy? What would happen today if we stopped worrying about the "cubits" and lived God's will for our lives? What would happen today if we "built the ark" that God is telling us to build?

What would happen today...?

Genesis 6:22 (KJV)

Thus did Noah; according to all that God commanded him, so did he.

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Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Limit

When man puts a limit on what he can be, he has put a limit on what he will be.
Dr. Myles Munroe from the book Understanding Your Potential.

What would happen today if we did not put limits on ourselves? What would happen today if we followed God's will for us instead of listening to the lies of the enemy? What would happen today if we took a stand against Satan and his tricks? What would happen today if we asked God to open our minds, our intellects, our creativity, and our hearts to change the world?

What would happen today...?

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV copyright 2010)

5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
6 in all your ways submit to him,
and he will make your paths straight.
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Saturday, January 29, 2011

Love



What would happen today if we realized this is how God loves us? What would happen today if we took a chance even in the face of adversity? What would happen today if we opened our hearts to share this kind of love with those around us? What would happen today if we "knew it"?

What would happen today...?

1 John 4:11 (NIV copyright 2011)

Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
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Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Leader

I attended a meeting today where Dr. Bob Laurent the Vice President for College Relations Professor of Religion and Bible at Bethel College in Mishawaka Indiana was speaking. He pointed out these ten things to help us become better leaders.

1. Have a mind to suffer
2. Be honest
3. Don't be a people pleaser
4. Don't be greedy
5. Be more childlike
6. Have sensitivity for others
7. Have genuine love for others
8. Leaders give their life away
9. Have a faith that works
10. Encourage others

1 Thessalonians 2:1-12 (NIV copyright 2010)

1 You know, brothers and sisters, that our visit to you was not without results. 2 We had previously suffered and been treated outrageously in Philippi, as you know, but with the help of our God we dared to tell you his gospel in the face of strong opposition. 3 For the appeal we make does not spring from error or impure motives, nor are we trying to trick you. 4 On the contrary, we speak as those approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please people but God, who tests our hearts. 5 You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on a mask to cover up greed—God is our witness. 6 We were not looking for praise from people, not from you or anyone else, even though as apostles of Christ we could have asserted our authority. 7 Instead, we were like young children among you.

Just as a nursing mother cares for her children, 8 so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well. 9 Surely you remember, brothers and sisters, our toil and hardship; we worked night and day in order not to be a burden to anyone while we preached the gospel of God to you. 10 You are witnesses, and so is God, of how holy, righteous and blameless we were among you who believed. 11 For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, 12 encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.

What would happen today if we became the leaders that God wants us to be? What would happen today if we followed the words of Paul and put these 10 things into practice? What would happen today if we had a faith that works? What would happen today if we stood together as men of God and lead those that don't know Him to His Word?

What would happen today...?
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Saturday, January 15, 2011

Off Duty


Photo and article from WSBT.COM

Sightseeing turns into crime fighting for South Bend cop

Cop recovers stolen iPad after footchase in Chicago.

SOUTH BEND — When a man snatched a young woman’s iPad in a Chicago coffee shop Saturday afternoon, Jose Capeles took off after him.

It didn’t matter that the South Bend police officer was off-duty, touring downtown Chicago, wearing nice shoes, or about to order a cup of hot tea.

“If you see something like that, a felony in progress, you have to act,” said Capeles, 28.

Little did he know the thief would lead him on a chase that would stretch for half a dozen city blocks and weave between pedestrians and several lanes of traffic.

Capeles had arrived in Chicago that morning, intending to relax and enjoy the city.

Around 12:45 p.m., he walked into Argo Tea, on North Rush Street, to order a warm beverage.

While waiting in line, he noticed a man enter the store who looked suspicious.

The clerk told him to leave, as he had apparently been banned from the shop.

“I was watching him the whole time,” Capeles recalled. “I kept watching what he was doing.”

As the man approached the shop’s exit, Capeles saw him turn to a young woman typing on her iPad, grab the $500 device, and run out the door.

Capeles, glancing at the blank stares of other customers, took off after him.

“He had a good clip,” Capeles said.

Soon they were separated by more than two city blocks.

Capeles hung a sharp left and a quick right, intercepting the thief, who thought he had outrun Capeles, on a side street.

“He was holding something in his coat with both hands,” Capeles said. “I said, ‘I’m an off-duty South Bend police officer and I saw what you did.’”

The thief, apparently shocked, broke free from Capeles’ grasp and started running again.

Capeles finally caught up to him in a courtyard at Holy Name Cathedral on North State Street, holding him on the ground and grabbing the stolen iPad from inside the man’s coat.

Chicago police officers made the scene soon after, thanking the South Bend cop for his speed.

The alleged thief, 18-year-old Danee Brewer of Chicago, was arrested and charged with one count of felony theft.

Later, the officers returned to the tea shop, and gave the woman her iPad. When she began to thank the uniformed Chicago officers, they pointed to the young man in jeans and a wool coat standing beside them — an off-duty cop from South Bend who had decided to help.

Capt. Phil Trent, spokesman for South Bend police, said it is not uncommon for officers to assist at crime scenes or car accidents that they encounter while off-duty.

But to do so in another state while touring a city and relaxing is rather remarkable, Trent said.

Trent noted that the thief could very well have been armed and the chase could have turned dangerous or even deadly.

Capeles said his police duties don’t end when he is off-duty. He compared it to a nurse or doctor performing emergency medical services when they encounter someone needing help.

After the incident, Capeles finally got his tea — a cup of chai, on the house.
Staff writer Mary Kate Malone: mmalone@sbtinfo.com 574-235-6337

Romans 12:20-21 (New International Version, ©2010)

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
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Monday, January 10, 2011

Simple

Video from NBC Nightly News

My intention when starting this blog was to inspire Christian men to step outside of the box and do something that would honor God's will for them. I saw this story on the news and thought we could take a lesson from the ladies. It is truly and inspiration to see what can happen when someone follows a simple idea placed in their heart by God.

What would happen today if we listened to the small voice that prompts us to do simple things to help others? What would happen today if we got together with some friends to put that idea into practice? What would happen today if God's love for the world shined through our actions? What would happen today if a small act of kindness turned into something that changed the world?

What would happen today...?

Matthew 25:36

I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.
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Friday, January 7, 2011

Direction

One of the things people like to joke about is the fact that men do not follow direction. If we're lost we won't stop and ask for help. When it comes time to put together the children's toys from Christmas we don't look at the instructions. We think have an innate sense of doing things the right way, our way. But more times than not we have to swallow our pride and stop and ask for help, or read the instructions to get the bike put together before the kids wake up on Christmas morning.

I think this happens when it comes to following God's will. It's hard to do. We don't always ask for His direction, we don't always ask for blessings, we don't always ask for revelation. But we should, it may save us time in the long run or maybe set us on a course to make a difference in the lives of those around us.

What would happen today if we set our pride aside and asked for His help? What would happen today if we actually followed His direction? What would happen today if we read the instructions before we jumped into a project? What would happen today if we helped each other follow God's will for our lives?

What would happen today...?

Genesis 6:14-16, 22 (NIV©2010)

So make yourself an ark of cypress wood; make rooms in it and coat it with pitch inside and out. This is how you are to build it: The ark is to be three hundred cubits long, fifty cubits wide and thirty cubits high. Make a roof for it, leaving below the roof an opening one cubit high all around Put a door in the side of the ark and make lower, middle and upper decks...

22 Noah did everything just as God commanded him.

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Saturday, January 1, 2011

Beginning

Every morning for a long time I read from the daily devotional "Still God's Man: A Daily Devotional Guide to Christlike Character" by Don M. Aycock & Mark Sutton.

This is today's entry:

January 1
A New Beginning

Genesis I:I

"In the beginning...."

Those words have the refreshing sound of a mountain waterfall. Who doesn't long for a new beginning? One of the things I like to do at the end of each year is to think back over the previous twelve months and consider what want well and what did not go so well. I ask myself some hard questions like these: Am I into any habits that prevent my being what I want to be? Do I need to change any specific actions? Do any attitudes need work? Am I being dishonest with myself in any area of my life?

If you ask yourself enough questions like these, you will get either depressed or motivated! For me, and maybe for you, these questions are motivating. That is why I find Genesis 1:1 so refreshing. Imagine it. You can draw a line in the chronology of your life and say, "I'm starting over. From this day forward, I can change the course of my life by making some corrections."

One of the ways we can change is by spending some time each day in conversation with God. Reading this devotional book will be helpful, but prayer and Bible reading are essential. I know; you have tried that in the past but had trouble following through. You are in good company. But think of it this way. Developing a consistent devotional life is like investing small amounts of money over a long stretch of time and watching the magic of compound interest. Small investments can pay big dividends.

Make up your mind that you will get up fifteen minutes earlier, or keep the TV or radio off for a while, or stay up a bit later to get in your devotion time. You might not notice any difference at first, but stay with it. Let those powerful words
in the beginning work for you.

Lord, thank You for the power of a new beginning.
Help me to remember that You were there when the world and all that is in it began.
You are here now, too, through Your Spirit.
Help me develop the strength and resolve to spend time with You each day.
Give me guidance as I grow in relationship with You and others.
Through the name of Jesus, Amen.


When I ask myself these questions there is one answer that comes up that needs to be addressed. In the past I was very diligent with my morning devotional time, up until about 6 months ago. I let it slip. I made excuses; I'm busy with work, busy with homework, busy with this and that. My thing was "I will do it later", but most days it never happened. Up until this time I made sure that I got up a little earlier so I could have the time I needed, but complacency sets in. The enemy distracted me.

What would happen today if we asked ourselves these questions and took the time to honestly answer them? What would happen today if we stopped listening to the excuses the enemy distracts us with? What would happen today if we closed the door to our room and got down on our knees and gave God our undivided attention for 15 minutes everyday? What would happen today if we asked for courage, strength, hope, wisdom, understanding and His love?

What would happen today...?

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